Bobbi Jo (Stanfield) Gray

April 25, 1959-March 17, 2026

Bobbi Jo (Stanfield) Gray, 66 of rural Lancaster, Missouri passed away at the Scotland County Memorial Hospital in Memphis, Missouri on Tuesday, March 17, 2026.

The daughter of Jackie Dale and Sandra Anne (Redding) Erwin, she was born on April 25, 1959 in Kirksville, Missouri. Bobbi's father, Jackie, passed away when Bobbi was four years old and she was later adopted by Lee Stanfield who raised her as his own. She was a graduate of Pasco County High School in Dade City, Florida. On October 9, 1982, in Downing, Missouri, she was united in marriage to Patrick Wayne Gray and to this union two children were born, Carrie Anne and Cody Lowell.

Bobbi is survived by her husband, Pat Gray of rural Lancaster, Missouri; children, Carrie Oberweather and husband, Jason of Lee's Summit, Missouri and Cody Gray and wife, Mindy of St. Peters, Missouri; four grandchildren, Raegan and Makinley Oberweather and Connor and Matthew Gray; two sisters, Elizabeth Stanfield and husband, Mike of Florida and Kimberly Driscoll and husband, Jeff of Indiana; brothers-and sisters-in-law, Darrell Schmitter of Higginsville, Missouri, Helen Lewis and husband, Jeff of Centralia, Missouri, Mike Gray and wife, Donna of Lancaster, Missouri, Connie Kethe and husband, John of Lancaster, Missouri and Carla Tallman and husband, Steve of Lancaster, Missouri; numerous nieces and nephews, other family members and many good friends.

Bobbi is preceded in death by her parents, Sandra and Lee Stanfield and her biological father, Jackie Erwin; mother and father-in-law, Lowell and Virginia Gray; grandparents, Leonard and Roberta Redding and one sister-in-law, Hazel Schmitter.

Bobbi and Pat attended the Lancaster Christian Church for as long as her health permitted.

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Funeral services will be held on Saturday, March 28, 2026 at 11:00 a.m. at Norman Funeral Home in Lancaster, Missouri with Brad Drummond officiating. Special music selections will be "Dancing In The Sky," "Amazing Grace" and "Free Bird." Soloist will be Bradley Leatherman.  A visitation will be held on Saturday, March 28, 2026 between the hours of 10:00 a.m. and 11:00 a.m. at Norman Funeral Home in Lancaster, Missouri. Memorials have been established for Schuyler County Cancer Relief Fund. A private family burial will be at a later date as the body has been cremated. Online condolences may be expressed to the family by logging on to normanfh.com. Arrangements are under the direction of Norman Funeral Home in Lancaster, Missouri.